Thursday 9 July 2020
Family law mediation helps resolve conflicts between you and your ex-spouse and has become a standard procedure in a large number of marriages. The mediation process involves the settlement of your issues with a neutral third party such as a lawyer or a mediator. At this stage, the mediator is expected to do what you are unable to do yourself. They are then able to help resolve the underlying issues that made the marriage ended in divorce in a way that both of you can live with and be happy with.
For many people, this is the best way to get over the most important family issues and bring the relationship back to a peaceful level. However, it is important to remember that mediation is not the only way to resolve disputes within a marriage. It can take time for your disputes to be resolved by someone else, and often the mediator can bring new life into the marriage through his or her advice and suggestions. There is also the possibility of entering a civil suit where the court will appoint a lawyer to decide on the divorce case on behalf of you and your ex-spouse.
In addition to helping to bridge the gap between you and your ex-spouse, family law mediation is good for people who wish to continue their relationship with their children. Your children can help you come to a mutual agreement about your shared parenting. You can also agree to maintain contact with your children and set up arrangements with their parents for them to meet with your ex-spouse. Both of you can settle the conflicts regarding your children's future and how they will be raised. This can help to ensure that your children are treated fairly and justly, something that may well have been lost if you had a full divorce trial.
